QUESTIONS

 Deep questions to ask friends

• What’s been on your heart and mind recently?
• What are your current priorities in this season of your life, and why?
• How would you like people to experience you? What kind of person do you want to be in the world?
• If you had a whole day where you could do anything you wanted, what would you do?
• What are you most proud of about yourself?
• What is your greatest accomplishment?
• What are you still hoping to accomplish?
• What do you want people to know about you?
• What do you need more of in your life?
• What do you need less of in your life?
• What do you feel has been your greatest “win” so far in your life?
• What three words describe what you’re most grateful for?
• Would you rather people perceive you as being kind, smart or attractive?
• How do you like to receive care?
• How do you cope when things get hard?
• What do you really care about?
• What really frustrates you?
• What keeps you up at night?
• Who sticks out as being an early positive influence in your life?
• Who is most important to you now?
• How did you feel about where you grew up?
• Was it a supportive environment?
• Who are you most like in your family?
• Who in your family do you struggle with?
• Is there a time when you did something that seems so out of character that most people wouldn’t believe it?
• What is the most trouble you’ve ever been in?
• Looking back on your life, who or what makes you instantly light up?
• If you could leave a “mark on the world” that preceded you, what would it be?
• What would you like to accomplish in life?
• What makes your life feel purposeful?
• What values are most important to you?
• If one wish of yours could come true, what would it be?
• If you could travel anywhere, where would you go?
• If you could meet anyone in the world, alive or deceased, who would it be?
• What brings you joy?
• What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?

Fun (sometimes funny) questions to ask friends

• Describe your perfect day.
• What movie or show do you keep rewatching?
• What makes you choose it? (See question above.)
• What was your favorite game as a child?
• Which book or movie impacted you most growing up?
• What’s your favorite childhood memory?
• What is your favorite memory?
• What is on your bucket list?
• What are two places you want to go to before you die?
• What does your ideal friend weekend look like?
• What is the most exciting adventure you have been on?
• Where is the most awe-inspiring place you’ve ever visited?
• If you weren’t in your current profession, what would you be doing?